Helping Kids Understand Big Feelings: Emotional Awareness and Regulation Through Play

From joy to frustration, curiosity to sadness, children feel a wide range of emotions—sometimes all in the same afternoon! But while emotions are natural and important, knowing how to identify them and what to do with them doesn’t come automatically. That’s where emotional awareness and regulation come in.

At Craft Play Print, we believe that play and creativity are powerful tools for helping children learn about themselves and their feelings. In this post, we’ll explore what emotional awareness and regulation are, why they matter, and how crafts can support children in developing these essential life skills.


What Is Emotional Awareness?

Emotional awareness is the ability to recognize, name, and understand your own emotions and the emotions of others.

For young children, this starts with simple statements like:

  • “I’m mad because he took my toy.”
  • “I feel happy when we paint together.”
  • “You look sad. Did something happen?”

When children learn to name their feelings, they can begin to manage them in healthy ways.

Why It Matters:

  • Builds self-understanding and empathy
  • Reduces frustration and tantrums
  • Lays the foundation for healthy communication
  • Supports social relationships

Children who can recognize and talk about emotions are more likely to navigate challenges with confidence and compassion.


What Is Emotional Regulation?

Emotional regulation is the ability to manage your feelings in a healthy way. It’s not about stopping emotions (which is impossible), but about understanding them and making choices about how to respond.

For children, this might look like:

  • Taking deep breaths when feeling overwhelmed
  • Asking for help when feeling stuck
  • Finding a quiet space to calm down
  • Using art or movement to process big feelings

Why It Matters:

  • Helps kids handle disappointment and frustration
  • Reduces impulsive or aggressive behavior
  • Improves attention and focus
  • Builds resilience and mental well-being

Like any skill, emotional regulation takes time, practice, and support.


How Crafts and Play Build Emotional Skills

The good news? Kids learn best through play—and crafts are one of the most powerful, hands-on ways to explore emotions.

1. Crafts Create a Safe Space for Expression

Art gives kids a way to express feelings they can’t yet explain. A child might paint an angry storm, draw a joyful rainbow, or shape a sad face out of clay—without needing the “right” words.

2. Crafts Slow Things Down

The rhythm of crafting—cutting, gluing, coloring—naturally calms the nervous system. It gives kids a break from overstimulation and helps them reconnect with themselves.

3. Crafts Build Reflection and Insight

When kids talk about what they’ve made (“This is me when I was mad”), they start to make connections between their inner world and outer expression.

4. Crafting Teaches Problem-Solving

Crafts aren’t always easy! Mistakes, broken pieces, or plans that don’t work teach children to pause, breathe, and try again—key steps in emotional regulation.


Simple Craft Activities to Support Emotional Growth

Here are a few easy, engaging activities you can do at home or in the classroom to support emotional awareness and regulation:

1. Make an “Emotion Wheel”

  • Use colored paper or a printable template
  • Label each slice with an emotion: happy, sad, mad, scared, excited, etc.
  • Add drawings or emoji-style faces
  • Use it as a tool to check in each day: “How are you feeling right now?”

2. Create a “Feelings Monster”

  • Use a paper bag or sock to make a puppet
  • Let your child decorate it however they like
  • Ask: “What does your monster feel when it’s angry? Happy? Nervous?”
  • Role-play with the puppet to explore tough emotions

3. Calm-Down Jars

  • Fill a jar with water, glitter, and a bit of glue
  • Let your child shake it and watch the glitter settle
  • Use it as a visual tool for calming down after a big emotion

4. Storytelling with Emotions

  • Draw simple characters or use printables
  • Give each character a feeling
  • Help your child tell a story: “Why is Sad Sam sad? What can make him feel better?”

5. My Happy Place Craft

  • Have your child draw or collage a scene that makes them feel safe and happy
  • Encourage them to describe it: “What can you see? Hear? Smell?”
  • Revisit the picture when they need a calming moment

How Adults Can Support Emotional Learning

Crafts are most powerful when paired with intentional conversation and emotional coaching. As a parent, teacher, or caregiver, you don’t have to have all the answers. What matters is showing up with curiosity, patience, and empathy.

Here are a few simple ways to help:

  • Name emotions out loud: “I see you’re frustrated because the glue isn’t working.”
  • Model regulation: “I’m taking deep breaths because I’m feeling a little stressed.”
  • Validate feelings: “It’s okay to feel angry. Everyone gets mad sometimes.”
  • Offer choices: “Would you like to keep crafting or take a break?”
  • Practice empathy: “How do you think your friend felt when that happened?”

By modeling emotional awareness and offering tools, you show children that feelings are not problems—they’re part of being human.


Final Thoughts

Emotional awareness and regulation are lifelong skills—but they start in early childhood. Every glitter-covered paper heart, every frowny-face drawing, every glitter jar or story puppet is a small but powerful step toward emotional confidence.

At Craft Play Print, we’re passionate about offering tools that support not just creative play—but emotional growth. Because when kids feel safe, seen, and supported, they don’t just make art—they thrive.